I know it can be so overwhelming, when it seems like everyone around you is cheating or being cheating at. And on top of that, you have an unfortunate experiences on the subject.
Each person has their own mechanism to absorb, handle, approach and dwell with it.
One who has been badly hurt can be easily forgetting in a handful of time while the other took years to forgiving.
Nothing is wrong with that. Both are human.
This is my settle ground. Now it's time for me to pick up ways to approach it.